You don't need other people's permission to love yourself. The world is a fickle place, and placing yourself at the mercy of it's tide will always thrash you too and fro. Most people change their opinions as often as the wind changes direction... so you cannot let your self acceptance rely on their shifting thoughts. To find true stability in life, know who you are, accept it and love it for the uniqueness that it is. And never let anyone else change that perception.