STOP JUDGING YOURSELF FOR THE BAD ACTIONS OF OTHERS

 

     It happens to all of us, we are hurt or betrayed by someone close to us. But then, we start the process of trying to figure out why this hurt or betrayal happened. And oftentimes, we start blaming ourselves for what the other person did. It then becomes a vicious cycle of self-blame, feeling unworthy, judging ourselves harshly and telling ourselves how stupid and foolish we were to have soured such a precious friend or loved one against us. But the truth of the matter is, in many instances, we are not to blame for what the other person did. In this podcast we will talk about some of the main reasons why people often reject, abandon or betray those close to them who are caregivers, spiritual people or light workers. Some of the answers may be surprising, but at the end of the day, we must begin to realize the truth about the situation that has caused us so much self-doubt and pain. It's time to stop judging ourselves for the bad actions of others!

FREEDOM TO BE

     Perhaps most of the problems in our world stem from being told who we have to be. From the moment we exit the birth canal, we begin a training regiment that tells us how to behave and conform to the world, society and culture around us. And although this training has some valuable components, it also suppresses the personal creativity of our soul. If we are artistic, spiritual, or think outside the box in any way, we are often labeled as strange, weird or outcasts. I think this is why the United States, and much of the world right now, is in such upheaval. Because people are pushing the boundaries, searching for personal meaning but not quite knowing where to find it.... yet. But if we would make the simple practices of spirituality, self-acceptance and unconditional acceptance of others the center working foundation of our lives; we may very quickly find the light we are looking for, and begin to be a society and a world that is more loving and free to be and express the beauty of our individuality.

THE FEAR OF DEATH

      On the eve of Halloween, I took a stroll through one of the local cemeteries and recorded a podcast on the subject of, the fear of death. When you really think about it, the fear of death touches so many different aspects of our lives, and many times, we don't even realize it. The fear of death can translate into the fear of illness and disease, change or loss in our lives. Death is a subject we often avoid, but like the ancients, maybe it is something we should think about more often, but in a different context than most of us do here in the Western world. If we can make peace with the idea of death and change, we might be surprised how much more peaceful and fulfilling our lives will become. I hope that this little podcast walk and talk gives you some food for thought; and perhaps helps you to overcome the fear of death and change in your own personal life. 

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